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[Greatest_Dancer]

I know this has nothing to do with dancing and all but i am shy so i can't ask someone i know, so ya, this girl i wanted to ask out that iwanted to learn dancing for, i plan to do it when i get backt o school, thursday. i just was wondering if have any advice of how to ask (as in what to say), anyone?

Thanx in advance,
J.K.

[mamboqueen]

How old is she? And you?

If you have a particular day in mind, why don't you try asking if she has any plans for that day/night. She will probably put 2 + 2 together, and if she isn't really interested will say that she does have plans. Or, if she really does have plans, she might say, "I have plans, but I'm free on ___". This way, you're kind of feeling out her interest without actually asking for a date. If she says she has no plans, then ask if she'd like to go to a movie, or whatever you want to do.

[Greatest_Dancer]

were 14, and all i can say is that if thats the kind of thing to say then thanks, if anyone disagrees please say so, but so far what u said is logical :D

[saludas]

were 14, and all i can say is that if thats the kind of thing to say then thanks, if anyone disagrees please say so, but so far what u said is logical :D

Any thoughts to proper spelling and English?

[Sagitta]

Any thoughts to proper spelling and English?
Probably the way kids that age speak. Not worth commenting on.

[Greatest_Dancer]

matha nd science is my major, not english :D

[mamboqueen]

;) Don't worry about it; but do work on it

[Greatest_Dancer]

it aint no crime to type fast and skip grammer and spelling :P

[mamboqueen]

Okay, when you say "it aint no," it means it IS because you used a double negative.

Seriously...we all make our share of typos, but (putting on my little "mommy hat") you will get farther in life if you can use correct English and grammar. Just think of all the beautiful poetry you could write for this girl you would like to date!

[Greatest_Dancer]

Okay, when you say "it aint no," it means it IS because you used a double negative.

because a double negative = a positive :)

- If i were a plane, i would fly over land. I spelled it right :)

[Stiletto One]

I love using double (or multiple!) negatives just to obfuscate. But maybe I'm a bit crepuscular.

I remember pulling the wonderful "mumblemumbleWILLYOUBEMYGIRLFRIEND???" tactic. Man, I still feel stupid for that one. It was also when I was 14 and in eighth grade. :p

I need to ask her to lunch sometime, we're still friends but haven't hung out at all since we got out of high school. (She turned me down, btw) *shrug*

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