Have you..

[choosejuicy]

Have you ever gone to a club and met someone that you danced the rest of the night with and thought about them again for the next two days?

I have. Is that weird?
& I was hoping he would call too.

[fascination]

WELCOME to DF CHOOSEJUICY... um no, b/c I am an old fart, but sounds like fun and I have certainly had a dance with someone preoccupy my thoughts for a day or two....

[Mr. Dance]

Oh yeah, Ive gone to clubs before, hung out with and met some great people. We danced, drank, just generally had a good time talking. They take your number and then you sit and wonder if they'll call. Been there, done that.

Then when they dont call, I'd always call them back if it went past a couple days. Sometimes it worked out well, sometimes it didnt. Was always fun though. Can't say Ive done that in quite awhile, my wife might have something to say about it :lol:

[latingal]

Hi choosejuicy, welcome to dance-forums! Not wierd at all, you met someone that you clicked with and had a great night of dancing out of it...who wouldn't want to think about that? No worries about him calling though, you sound like you're young and have plenty more nights of dancing in you!

[SuzieQ]

Yes, I'm with Fascination on this one. Have definitely had some dances I would like to repeat! Those 3 minute romances are great!

[SPratt74]

Those 3 minute romances are great!

Oh aren't they though?

But here's something else to consider. I for one would never go home with a guy from the bar, or ever bother calling him (or giving him my phone number), because I've seen to many horror stories about girls getting caught up with the wrong guys that they meet at the bars. One of the stories was on Unsolved Mysteries, and I have never bothered to even care for or look for a guy at the bar sense, and this was in my early twenties since I watched the show, but still... it left a lasting impression on my mind let me tell you!

[AzureDreamer]

oh, yeah! oh, YEAH.

I think its the most incredible thing ever. and iits sometimes a person that you wouldn't have normally thought you would have been interested in.. you just can't stop thinking about them.

That doesn't mean its going to work out long term... but hey... the only dances I really regret are the ones I've sat out. It does get really weird when you meet your ex at a dance, and 10 years later its just the same. and you know can't possibly work out, and you know you are totally wrong for each other... and it still just hits you; you're just like "oh yeah, THAT's why we went out for 3 years". That kind of just raw physical attraction... its special.

For some reason, the more you fantasize about someone... the better the sex is. I'm not sure why that is... you'd think there'd be some element of disappointment or something; but thats not how it seems to work. If you can't stop thinking about someone... you know its going to be -awesome-.

I can tell you its never worked out for me long term... in the end you need more than just physical attraction. All the same... its never ended really badly either. Everyone I have ever felt that way about, I still stay in contact with. You've shared something that most people will never experience. There are mistakes worth making.

I really hope he calls you.

[choosejuicy]

I'm not really looking for romance but it'll be nice for him to call & get to know him better and maybe meet up again at the same club (as there are many different clubs to choose from downtown)

But that was one heck of a dance that night! :)



I really hope he calls you.

It's been 3 days and no response. A tad disappointed :S but I know there are more nights like those awaiting me :D

[SPratt74]

I'm not really looking for romance but it'll be nice for him to call & get to know him better and maybe meet up again at the same club (as there are many different clubs to choose from downtown)

But that was one heck of a dance that night! :)



It's been 3 days and no response. A tad disappointed :S but I know there are more nights like those awaiting me :D

Well, don't feel bad. I have guy friends that will flirt with any girl at the bar, and they will give her their phone number, but they won't do anything about it. So, you aren't the only one that happens to. My guy friends do it all of the time to all of the girls they meet. They look at it as a good time, but the girls tend to look at it all as being serious. Sorry that happened to you though. You deserve better! Hug! ;)

[AzureDreamer]

It's been 3 days and no response. A tad disappointed

Its only Tuesday morning!

[motardmom]

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