danceguy
01-22-2004, 11:31 PM
There's an hour left at work...and you can't stop tapping your foot. When you're listening to the music your co-workers play...you hear an imaginary conga where it ought to be. The songs run through your head...and your dancing even though you're sitting still...
You've got a case of Salsa fever...tried and true!
But tonight you're going out to cure your Salsa withdrawls, be it at a local club, or maybe even your really cool Salsa class. You've had a lousy day at work, its a hurts to move day...but when you get home, all you can think of is...
Salsa
Salsa
Salsa!
You're already dancing as you're putting your best clothes on. Maybe you do some steps while you're brushing your teeth...and the music is playing in your house as you get ready.
The energy you feel while you dance is already being cultivated - and suddenly you forget about your headache, your stupid boss and all the aches and pains of day to day life...
You walk in the room, and you immediately feel the energy of the group dynamic - the word 'caliente' describes it well. Your feet move when you should be standing still, your heart is glowing of its own accord, and you're flirting with the ladies and surprised at how open and alive you feel.
But then - disaster strikes! :shock:
Suddenly, all of that beautiful passion and spice stops, and its not just you...its happening all around you. Then, its hits a few more victims, and without much warning, the entire room is feeling down. People stop trying to dance...stop moving...they're standing there with their arms crossed. Some start leaving...and they're gone for the night...which is a sad thing. The community you've created together is crumbling...for many who have lost those good vibes they had been feeling are gone. Perhaps for good.
Now, if I still have your attention, what is this black cloud that has descended and is chasing the new folks away?
Simple. You've taught them too much, too fast in the dance lesson!
It could be the lesson at a club, or one in a classroom. Either way, if 75% or more of the people in the group are totally lost and what you are teaching is above their current level...there's no way you are going to make them all get it after 20 tries! Let the ship sink...and sail for new seas! :oops:
I must say that I am seeing this more and more as I go out dancing, and its amazing how fast not only my energy level drops, but that of the people around me.
I saw it happen the other night...and I couldn't believe how many new folks left the club looking very frusterated. And again in my class tonight...I was feeling so great until we had some complicated pattern thrown at us. Just about everyone was totally lost...
Thoughts? Ideas? Am I seeing clearly or not? I know I must be on to something, because I see what happens around me, and what happens to the group dynamic...
Fortunately, my will is stronger than this...and I know when I hit my "frusteration point" and I just back off and cool down. I will continue dancing regardless...but I really feel for some of those folks who may have just had their first Salsa night...and also their last. :?
ScorpionGuy
You've got a case of Salsa fever...tried and true!
But tonight you're going out to cure your Salsa withdrawls, be it at a local club, or maybe even your really cool Salsa class. You've had a lousy day at work, its a hurts to move day...but when you get home, all you can think of is...
Salsa
Salsa
Salsa!
You're already dancing as you're putting your best clothes on. Maybe you do some steps while you're brushing your teeth...and the music is playing in your house as you get ready.
The energy you feel while you dance is already being cultivated - and suddenly you forget about your headache, your stupid boss and all the aches and pains of day to day life...
You walk in the room, and you immediately feel the energy of the group dynamic - the word 'caliente' describes it well. Your feet move when you should be standing still, your heart is glowing of its own accord, and you're flirting with the ladies and surprised at how open and alive you feel.
But then - disaster strikes! :shock:
Suddenly, all of that beautiful passion and spice stops, and its not just you...its happening all around you. Then, its hits a few more victims, and without much warning, the entire room is feeling down. People stop trying to dance...stop moving...they're standing there with their arms crossed. Some start leaving...and they're gone for the night...which is a sad thing. The community you've created together is crumbling...for many who have lost those good vibes they had been feeling are gone. Perhaps for good.
Now, if I still have your attention, what is this black cloud that has descended and is chasing the new folks away?
Simple. You've taught them too much, too fast in the dance lesson!
It could be the lesson at a club, or one in a classroom. Either way, if 75% or more of the people in the group are totally lost and what you are teaching is above their current level...there's no way you are going to make them all get it after 20 tries! Let the ship sink...and sail for new seas! :oops:
I must say that I am seeing this more and more as I go out dancing, and its amazing how fast not only my energy level drops, but that of the people around me.
I saw it happen the other night...and I couldn't believe how many new folks left the club looking very frusterated. And again in my class tonight...I was feeling so great until we had some complicated pattern thrown at us. Just about everyone was totally lost...
Thoughts? Ideas? Am I seeing clearly or not? I know I must be on to something, because I see what happens around me, and what happens to the group dynamic...
Fortunately, my will is stronger than this...and I know when I hit my "frusteration point" and I just back off and cool down. I will continue dancing regardless...but I really feel for some of those folks who may have just had their first Salsa night...and also their last. :?
ScorpionGuy