to all you dancers, can u guyz help me out!?

[vanillathunder]

hey all,

i recently went dancing at a night club with this girl that im trying to hookup with. she was pretty good, i was alright, not too bad, but i want to know how to get better. we danced mostly with each other, we did a lot of grinding and somewhat erotic dancing, but nothing too crazy u know? i wanted to know if you guyz could give me some advice on getting better at doing that with her, cuz i want to impress her on the dance floor, lol.

thanx to all!

[Sagitta]

If I remember correctly you have asked us about dance hall reggeae, hip hop, jazz, and so what dance style are you asking for help in now? And do you want to get better at dancing, or grinding, or adding sensuality to your dancing? All questions and no answers, I know!! But, I'm trying to figure out what exactly you want help in. :)

[pygmalion]

Hmm. From a dance perspective, I would say the best thing to do is keep it simple. Fancy new moves that are done badly will have the opposite effect from what you want. A few simple moves done well is all it takes to impress all but the shallow girls.


From a personal perspective, I'd say be yourself. Who wants to put all that effort into hooking up, only to find that the girl was falling in love with your facade, rather than the real you?

Dance-wise and personally, be as genuine as you can. That way, when you do hook up, it will be real and have a better chance of lasting a while. Good luck. 8)