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DancingMommy
07-29-2004, 05:16 PM
Ok so it really isn't about the Perils of Pauline, but I needed a catchy title...

When one is in a seriously committed partnership (read romantic AND dancing), and one's goals are different from one's partner, how do you reconcile that?

Here's my quandary... Hubby is a self-proclaimed, yet insecure, anti-social dance snob. I OTOH enjoy dancing for the heck of it. Maybe I'm being a wee bit harsh, but we are about as far apart in our dancing goals as we are locality growing up as kids (polar opposites :!: ).

For those of you who have SOs who also happen to be your partner ON the floor, how do you deal?

DancePoet
07-29-2004, 06:08 PM
Fooled me with the title. :)

So you and your SO were born at the North and South poles? ;)

(It's early, and I all ready being silly!)

DancingMommy
07-29-2004, 06:10 PM
I was born above the equator in North America & he was born below the equator in SE Asia, lol!

DancePoet
07-29-2004, 07:11 PM
Hmmm ... interesting, I'm beginning to wonder if I know who you are.

twodance
07-29-2004, 09:12 PM
The Doctor is in, just lay down on the couch and relax. What exactly is the problem ? Need more info. :|

twnkltoz
07-29-2004, 09:17 PM
My hubby is a WCS dancer and I'm a ballroom dancer. He loathes social dancing and I love it. So, I go without him. He smokes cigars. It works well.

pygmalion
07-30-2004, 08:44 AM
Am I missing something? Cigars? :roll: :lol:

On a more serious note, I think there are a few couples in DF who might be able to shed some ligt, DM. There might be an older thread with some discussion,too. I just have to remember what it was called. *mild panic* :lol:

DancingMommy
07-30-2004, 09:25 AM
Hmmm ... interesting, I'm beginning to wonder if I know who you are.

Oh really... Do you now??? Betcha don't, lol!

etchuck
07-30-2004, 09:53 AM
My hubby is a WCS dancer and I'm a ballroom dancer. He loathes social dancing and I love it. So, I go without him. He smokes cigars. It works well.

:?: Your husband dances WCS, but he hates social dancing :?: What's up with that!!!??? :shock:

You say tomato and I say tomato... ;)

DancingMommy
07-30-2004, 10:18 AM
Jenn - just g :shock: gle it! :wink: