a new partner?

[Serendipity]

any suggestions for getting back into the dancing world after divorcing your husband/dance partner? I've been overly timid and shy lately even though i'm very much wanting to get back to dancing the way i used to. it almost seems like half of me is excited about dancing with new people and half feels guilty and wary.

[pygmalion]

I wish I could help, more than just send a virtual hug. *hug*

[Serendipity]

thanks

[pygmalion]

I'm still figuring stuff out, myself, which is why I can't help much.

Sounds like what you're feeling is pretty normal, though. (I know that doesn't help much. :? )

[Medira]

Look around for social dances in your area and pop in sometime. Go with the intention of watching, to see if it's the kind of crowd that appeals to you. You can always go back for the next one, or even join in if you feel the inclination. Once you find an appealing location, work into it slowly. Maybe even take a group class or two to get to know a few people before diving into the social scene?