Ok. So, my sister keeps asking me why do men start dance? Now, I have been getting the truth out of some mothers that some guys just want to meet women, but end up staying because they like to dance. And surprisingly enough, that's been the answer to the ones I've asked so far. Again, I'm not asking why you stayed in dance, but why you joined dance. I know there are all kinds of reasons, so list whatever comes to mind. Also, if you are there to meet women, do you make your intentions known to those that you are interested in (think back before you were married if you are married now)? How is a girl supposed to know what you are thinking if you don't tell us in other words lol? I know that may seem silly, but I was standing outside with a friend of mine actually discussing this topic (and I don't want to go into another what is nice and what is flirting thread). She's young though, so she doesn't understand, but when you become older you sort of just go with the flow and say whatever happens... happens. Have fun!