Hi when we go to a new milonga as a couple the lady gets few if any dances, How do you go as a couple and yet dance with others esp at a milonga where you are not well known. Ideas ? She wants to improve her dance by trying new leaders but they avoid her when they see me. It appears that even if I ask other women to dance - the initial effect of our entry as a couple nullifies her chances of being asked to dance. Do you separate - don't sit together? Your suggestions are appreciated.