Thanks for the great advise on my previous thread on ageism. I would like to ask your advise on another question that will help me and others to become better Tangueros. How you handle the close embrace emotionally. I do not come from a hugging family but would love to master this style. My delemma is two fold. 1. If dancing with an unattractive partner, I draw away from them and have a hard time being in this close proximity. 2. If dancing with an attractive partner, I draw away to protect myself form rejection and the appearance of being too eager. I have seen very attractive dancing cheek to cheek with very unattractive so I know it is possible to do. How can I change my mindset to make this happen. Is there a particular thought or visualization technique that would help here.