When I go dancing I occasionally get a follow who is basically leading. Most of the time its due to the fact they are very new to dancing and they have just learned the steps and some moves without any theory on how to be a good follow. In that case its very easy for me to be able to give them tips to help, and most people who are new are very receptive to helpful suggestions. The biggest problem I have is with some follows who have been dancing for a bit of time and think they are good follows. At that point I find they are not very open to suggestions because they believe they are doing everything right. I have gone to the point of completely stopping dancing and they will just keep dancing. At that point its really obvious they do not know how to follow. Occasionally they do pick up the hint when I do that, but most of the time they seem not notice at all. Then usually I just will not dance with them again. I am curious if anyone has a more subtle approach or suggestions on how to deal with this?