Salsa > Gotta love gossip.

Discussion in 'Salsa' started by thespina13, Jan 7, 2007.

  1. sweavo

    sweavo New Member

    Well the 'mother and wife' stick can only apply insofar as your husband and child are suffering as a result of your behavior, and that is nobody's business but yours and theirs.

    If you wear your ring and don't use tongues, I'd say you're doing all you need to.

    Changing yourself or just your behavior? Changing how you act after learning the effects of your actions is not the same as giving up a part of yourself.

    This reminds me of my last boss at work, a short, round, bearded, rather smelly geek, into real ale, whiskey and motor racing, who perpetually mocked me about my 'effeminate', 'dissolute' and 'debauched' lifestyle. BOY did that get tedious, especially as he sat directly across the desk from me. In the end the interpretation was clear: He couldn't do that stuff, so he needed to do it vicariously through me. He couldn't walk up to a random woman in a salsa club and dance with her whereas I could. Likewise, he never got invited to wild parties where he got to have sex with multiple nubile partners, so OBviously, in his fantasy world, it follows that I did.
     
  2. sweavo

    sweavo New Member


    You know the drill:

    ... If a man doesn't - you know - they go blue and eventually explode ... Russ Meyer films are artistically and culturally very interesting ... It's good for the skin / hair ... research has shown that women have better orgasms when they pay for dinner because they feel empowered ...

    and the toughest one: when she asks what you are thinking and you really weren't thinking of anything at all.
     
  3. Pacion

    Pacion New Member

    Hope you are not suggesting that is happening in this case! :raisebro:
     
  4. thespina13

    thespina13 New Member

    Absolutely. What I don't like is when an overly conservative set of expectations is placed over me because of my status, and I cease to be seen as just ME, rather than who I am in relation to others. I will, obviously, respect those who count on me and love me.



    2 for 2! Excellent. Except I have only one tongue... does that count as one whole point?


    Very true. I've gotta remember that and not resent it so much. I guess it doesn't help that I learned all about how to be pissed off that someone is pissed off by my actions in high school. Time to move past that, I think.
     
  5. samina

    samina Well-Known Member

    what the.... so, it's not natural to feel empowered if a man is paying for my dinner?

    again....... what the...? <splutter!>
     
  6. englezul

    englezul New Member


    Well it goes down to the long history in which women were dependent on men for survival. Empowered because 1) it shows she can pull her own weight 2) she is there because she wants to be there not because she's hungry
     
  7. thespina13

    thespina13 New Member

    I feel empowered when i offer to pay, and then the guy insists. I like it when I'm esteemed.
     
  8. SPratt74

    SPratt74 New Member

    Hey women aren't the only ones that ask that question. I've been asked this question by the men I date many times. So, what does it mean when a man says it lol?
     
  9. SPratt74

    SPratt74 New Member

    Actually not all women in history were dependent on men for survival. The Amazon Warriors are a great read when it comes to women over powering men. And it's actually been proven real when the Amazon Warriors were thought so long to be a myth. And there have many Queens in ancient history (including present history) that have over powered their men. So, I wouldn't generalize women as being dependent on men for their survival in history. I for one am NOT one of those women. I do not need a man in my life to help me. If I choose to be with the man that I love it's for reasons such as love as to which I choose to be with him. ;)

    But is this off topic lol? Sorry! ;)
     
  10. salsamale

    salsamale New Member

    everyone, guess what? .. I just heard that thespina13 has 2 tongues! :)
     
  11. cornutt

    cornutt Well-Known Member

    That's not all she's got two of! :raisebro:
     
  12. SPratt74

    SPratt74 New Member

    Oh Cornutt! :doh: :uplaugh:
     
  13. Josh

    Josh Active Member

    Yeah and I heard she's really good at... *cough* I mean, uh, eating ice cream cones with two scoops. Wow, even that part was dirty. :raisebro:

    Okay, I just crossed the line. I'm going to have to warn myself or something.
     
  14. Josh

    Josh Active Member

    Yeah, she's got two ears as well... :)
     
  15. cornutt

    cornutt Well-Known Member

    For some reason, now I'm thinking of scoops of ice cream... :D
     
  16. Pacion

    Pacion New Member

    From some reason, the black widow spider came to mind! (Just googled - what would I do without Google! :lol: and apparently, it is a myth that the female eat the males after mating.)
     
  17. SPratt74

    SPratt74 New Member

    Oh you are mean! I'm glad that you don't live in my area!!! ;)

    Lol... just kidding!:p
     
  18. SPratt74

    SPratt74 New Member

    Lol... darn. To bad it's just a myth lol. ;)
     
  19. thespina13

    thespina13 New Member

    And that AIN'T a myth ;)

    Yeah Josh. Tone it down a little. You're getting carried away again. :p
     
  20. samina

    samina Well-Known Member

    well, for some reason now i'm traumatized by images of thespina with more than two... things she should have only ONE of...:shock:

    cornutt, fascination -- or was is MQ... -- was right... you ARE shameless!

    ;)
     

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