General Dance Discussion > HELP! I don't have a crush on my dance instructor, and I need advice!

Discussion in 'General Dance Discussion' started by wooh, Nov 27, 2014.

  1. twnkltoz

    twnkltoz Well-Known Member

    OMG U R killing me.
     
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  2. Rhythmdancer

    Rhythmdancer Well-Known Member

    Hahaha, I have to. It's kind of hard to root out the actual trolls in this thread so I am doing you guys a favor by writing response people won't dare dignify.
     
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  3. Larinda McRaven

    Larinda McRaven Site Moderator Staff Member

    The number one reason people walk in a dance studio is for a wedding prep.
    But being part of a community, a social network, creating and developing friendships. That is the number one reason people continue to go to a dance studio.
     
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  4. leee

    leee Well-Known Member

    dats ok u will alwys haz teh cheezburgrs.
     
  5. freeageless

    freeageless Active Member

    I agree. Very well stated.
     
  6. sbrnsmith

    sbrnsmith Well-Known Member

    Right- I was just paraphrasing OP's post because I wasn't sure I was reading it right.
     
  7. RiseNFall

    RiseNFall Well-Known Member


    Hmm. I believe you because you are in the business, but I would have said quality of instruction was the #1 reason to continue at a dance studio and the factors that you cite would be strong secondary reasons.
     
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  8. twnkltoz

    twnkltoz Well-Known Member

    It really depends. Group lesson students and Saturday night dancers are probably more interested in the comfort factor of friendships and familiar surroundings. Serious competitors would be more interested in the quality of instruction.
     
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  9. It's me.

    It's me. Member

    OK at first some friendship and secondly some partnership :p I still believe that it is better just to have a flirt that goes nowhere, a crush or even a relationship with someone that you dance with. I dance with a very good friend btw who knows that nothing will ever happen between us, but we still flirt and it's very funny...
     
  10. RiseNFall

    RiseNFall Well-Known Member

    Different people dance for different reasons.
     
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  11. Rhythmdancer

    Rhythmdancer Well-Known Member

    Theres a fine line; I compete and don't care for the instruction at this one studio but I enjoy social dancing there and take lessons elsewhere. I buy the product and spend it else where basically.

    I stay the hell from crushes and dance related relationship things at the places I go because I don't like to poo where I eat. Some people will stop dancing period because they had a falling out with someone at a studio or with their dance instructor over perceived or real crushes.

    Oh yeah obligatory nonsensical text: I knt g0 dnzin ne more cuz mai krsh maight hv seen mai nghty prtz. we no lnger tlk but itz k00 kuz i g0t dinner out of it kekeke ^_^
     
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  12. Larinda McRaven

    Larinda McRaven Site Moderator Staff Member

    well I did say "a studio" not "the same studio"
     
  13. twnkltoz

    twnkltoz Well-Known Member

    Yeah... I already have one ex in the dance community. I don't need more. I date elsewhere.
     
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  14. Loki

    Loki Well-Known Member

    Don't dig your latrines upriver from where you get your coffee water. (To paraphrase William Holden.)
     
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