Before I start, lemme just say; I have read and re read all the topic on this board, but did not quite find the answer I am searching for. Last night was semi formal (I am 14), and everyone was dancing, having a good time. A couple of times I was pulled over by some guys in a way that my butt was in their pelvic area, their hands on my stomach, and moved back and forth, dancing together but rubbing together as well. So, is this considered grinding? I also saw some people doing a kind of front version of grinding, but I really have no idea. I need some mannuel or instruction book or SOMETHING! I really want to have this as a skill, cause all my other areas of dance are a-ok. Thanks, Titania.