No. I am saying get some lessons before you injure a partner. Group. Private. Whatever. Do not endanger your partners. And, depending on where you're dancing and how extreme the moves, dips and lifts MAY be considered against accepted dance etiquette. Great way to get yourself blackballed. I couldn't find the Hydroxycut picture, btw. It's probably about nine or ten years old. But think leaning back through the center of your body and grounding yourself so that your partner has something to brace her body weight against.