There is a salsa dancer I know (and I bet you know such a person too). Many believe he is the best in the city, but the ladies I know that have danced with him for any period of time think he has a very harsh lead, and feel he dances more for himself than for his partners. When you talk to him, it is clear he is not a humble person. And when you watch him very carefully, you can see it's all about him, and it wouldn't really matter too much which partner he's dancing with. Is salsa becoming a stag dance? (all about the man) I might also reference how we talked about the top salsa dancers in another thread, and it took a couple dozen posts before a woman's name was even mentioned. I think that is pathetic. What is the World of salsa coming to?