I've been asking my wife for ideas for the DF . . . she being a "follow." She asks . . . "Why don't leads ask follows to dance?" She says that for many years (the past), the women (mostly the follows) waited to be asked by the lead to dance. She further states . . ."you leads all stand around and wait to be asked by the follows to dance." "If you are not a modern agressive woman, you could wait all night to be asked to dance." Leads . . . is this true??? Follows . . . have you noticed this trend???