My wife is smart, beautiful, kind, and a dozen years younger than I. How come I'm with her? In part, because she, a former ballerina, loves to dance and won't be with someone who can't. I teach, and have two bright, wonderful and stunningly beautiful women (no exaggeration) as private students. We occasionally go out and dance in the local bars, and people are surprised that I, old enough to be their father (grandfather?), am dancing with them. OTOH, if they could find age appropriate men who could dance, they would instantly drop me as a regular partner, or at least so they have said. Even though I'm a guy, I don't get it. Why don't guys dance?!! It's fun. It's healthy. And kind, wonderful, gorgeous women are just waiting! Do any of you understand this?