Mmmmm . . . thanks. Remind me to wipe off the lipstick before I go home??? :wink: I believe we are all capable of hurting someone or saying (writing) something wrong in the DF. It is difficult to put the thoughts into words without making them sometimes being construed as wrong or callous. I further believe that no one person, with the exception of just one, is intentionally capable of being demeaning to another here. If I could stay on line and hooked into the DF 24 x 7, I would just so I could catch the bad ones and edit them or delete them before they "go to press." I think many of would if we could!