Okay, guys, clue me in. While browsing the web yesterday, I found an interesting article in which the author gives a long list of do's and don'ts -- basically sexual etiquette at the milongas. It only stands to reason, she says, that, given the passionate nature of the dance, the crush of bodies and anonymity of the milongas, all sorts of sexually explicit behavior will be ignited. So she gives some suggestions on how to handle it. http://www.susanamiller.com.ar/editorialing.htm (scroll down to Good Treatment and Mistreat at the Milonga to see the article) Question: Is this real? Are milongas really the hotbed of steamy sexuality depicted in this article? And what do you do if you just want to dance?