The dance doesn't go well. One follower says, "he's using me to show off". Another says, "oh well, he tried hard." Same (earnest) guy who cares what the dance is like for his partner, two different ladies. If only he'd been more skilled, probably the dance would have gone well for both of them, and they both would have been happy. Apologies for not quoting all the relevant parts of the thread directly in my post.