So... I posted this on Q's thread in dancers anonymous, but from speaking to friends it seems that tango might be in a different class to other dances... When Orlando Bloom announced he was single and looking on This Morning with Phil and Fern, I actually had this train of thought: "ooh lovely, there's hope for me yet... no! damn! he doesn't Tango! What's the point in going out with someone who doesn't tango? Sorry Orlando, you are out of luck..." then I thought "actually, no, i'd never go out with someone from Tango... Oh my God! I can't win!" because of all the reasons people have already given for avoiding dance floor romances... So now I find, I can't go out with Orlando because he doesn't Tango, but then if he did tango I couldn't either.... Oh what a tangled web! Would you date someone who tango'd? would you consider someone who doesn't? would you persuade them to learn? to what degree do people you dance with interpret your enjoyment of the dance as enjoyment of them? etc etc? Is Tango a special case? If so why?