I would take that experience wad it up like the trash that it was and shoot her into the basket. My advice to you is simple: Just keep dancing. In time, you will develop your own style. Perfect your craft. I've danced with followers who may have had some issues, but in social dancing i just make it work. I am not saying i am a Salsa god and i have issues sometimes dancing more advanced follows. I sometimes get nervous dancing with a "star" i have never danced with like Magna Gopal, Azucena Perez,etc. In the end, I do what I can do within my arsenal to make it a good dance, and you should too.