I can not use normal tango heels. In fact, I ruined my feet wearing them. (long story) Using orthotics in all shoes and wearing shoes indoors has worked miracles. My feet don't hurt any more. But, I'm not taking any chances. I have worn flat shoes only - or less than one inch - for a couple of years, and there is no way I put my feet in high heel shoes. I'd want a little more heel than flats, though. Some women who lead wear different shoes for leading and following. I'd like to get something inbetween, with less than two inches heel and not too narrow - that'd be difficult to lead in. Obviously I can't use anthing that is sold as a tango shoe. How do I judge what could possibly work as an "inbetween" or "both ways" tango shoe?