OK the other thread was turning into a bit of a weirdy bag, and I got fed up with negativity and CAPITAL letters... Let's turn this positive! How can we ladies present ourselves or behave in a way what encourages leaders to invite them to dance? To pre-empt the howls of "Well I will dance with her if she asks me, I don't see why I should do the asking etc etc", this is for situations where it might not be appropriate for the followers to issue verbal invitations... Another thought: how can we improve our cabaceo skills, or, introduce the concept to people who don't know it? N.B. Many people already use cabaceo, they do it naturally and don't realise it has a name.