I was at a wedding last night. It was actually a vow renewal, since they eloped a few months ago. It was held in a reception hall. During the actual service the caterers, a local grocery store, decided the continue to set up the coffee and tea station, complete with unwrapping the stack of plastic cups from their wrapper.... RIGHT NEXT TO THE STAGE where the service was being held. I was appalled. And I really want to go to the grocery store and complain that they need to step up their game. But it IS a small town. Here is a very simple drawing of the layout... the place is actually very large and there was a dance floor and a dessert/candy table and tons of other ares.... but the stage seating and main food/drink was all right together. You can see the coffee/tea station is completely adjacent to the stage. Even the unwrapping of the cups was picked up by the microphone the wedding party was using. Is it worth saying something over? Everyone here knows everyone, even if you are the grocery store catering manager and a dance teacher. Do I become THAT woman ...? Am I just out of sync with the times thinking that weddings should be a little classier than that?