Yes, I'd like very much like to improve my dancing, and to explore the issues it brings up for me. On the feminine / masculine thing ... Surely, if you're coming from a place of peace and love, your movement will express itself naturally, and in a way that feels comfortable and appropriate for you. I think each person has both female and male characteristics, at the same time, though we may have a tendency towards one or the other, we will always have both. Harmony and play between these opposites, both within the individual and also between dance partners. Soft (female), and strong (male), and with no sharp edges. Fun, playful, and really sexy and beautiful. Artificial social constructs that tell us how we should be, errrrr, sod that. *razz* (I can't do smilies till 15 posts).