This topic has evolved a lot since yesterday... Why do you people have to be in a different time zone? All the action that I miss... :lol: Now, I have had my share of problems in the clubs, as "a single, white female"... There were people who wouldn't dance with me 'cause of the way I dressed (too dressed, instead of skimpy thingies...), people who wouldn't because I refused to "go out for a coffee" with them, because I was not good enough, because I was too d@rn good, because I was not a Latina etc. I tried to change at first, changed my outfits, started to invite guys, tried to hang out with them as much as I could, tried to change MYSELF to adjust to their requests (Yes, I lost weight to be more appealing to them - AS A DANCER!!!:shock: :shock: :shock: I must have been mad! :evil: ) Some people are narrow-minded, due to their own fears and they are going to remain like this until they can come to terms with themselves. Why bother caring about them? I've stopped doing that a long time ago! I love dancing Salsa and if no one will dance with me I'll take a girl and lead her! And if no girl wants either, I'll dance solo! And I'll train someone to be my partner. Salsa is a lifestyle to me... and I love it! It's made me happier and more relaxed!