I have enjoyed learning Tango and do enjoy dancing it with my wife. My wife likes switching partners. That's fine with me. She sometimes goes to dance events without me if I can't go. That's fine with me. Myself, I'm not interested in going to dances unless my dear wife (dw) can go. It took months, but I'll switch partners and ask ladies to dance now. How I differ from my wife is I don't seek as many dance partners as possible in a night, by choice I tend to ask few or none at a Tango Milonga. For the record I do switch partners in class and at practice sessions. That could work just fine, but it seems dw really wants me to be dancing with a bunch of other ladies. She tries to set up dances for me, offers me to other women, tells me to ask other women, encourages me to go to dance events by myself if she can't, comments about how I should enjoy dancing with such beautiful ladies, etc. This is despite my protestations that I can take care of myself and to not worry and that I am happy. Believe it or not, I can be perfectly happy just sitting there or talking to friends and don't feel a sense of loss if I'm not constantly dancing with other ladies. I have asked her but got a shoulder shrug for an answer. I think it is the kind of thing where she is going on instinct rather than an analysis. My hope is for some thoughts about why she would feel that way or why you personally like your significant other dancing with others. Maybe if I can understand it I can address it somehow, or might even be encouraged to dance with a larger number of ladies. I have a few theories of my own but don't want to bias the responses by saying them. Thanks for the insights.