:applause: Starry! I would have done the same thing in your shoes! :wink: Because you know the owner, if you had named and word got back to her, she would know that it was you and a good acquaintance could have been spoiled. She may have thought - why did you not talk to her about it etc etc she could have done something about it for the future (as she could not do anything about it at the time/past). I know there are "advantages" in naming but at least for females who want to lead, they at least now know that not ALL studios/instructors allow it and therefore may undertake some research first.