Last night I saw a guy go up to a woman to ask to dance and she said no...then I saw another guy ask her to dance (she is right next to the dance floor) and she says no, So knowing that she will say no, I go up to her and ask her to dance a merengue...and everyone knows that if you have two feet that work, anyone can dance merengue...she replied she didnt know how to dance...and I said in as neutral tone as possible something to the effect of "so what this is merengue, the easiest dance in the world"...she replied "I just want to watch"...so I said "I dont care if you say no to me, but the only way you are going to get better is to go out and dance, have fun, and not be afriad to make mistakes"....and then I left her...later on, the same guys (must have known this girl) asked her to dance and she refused...for some reason this pissed me off...so the guys are walking towards me and I tell them that they should go back to her and make her dance or tell her she should leave...hehe....and then the girl comes by and I told her you should dance with these guys, why the hell (edited for screen size) are you here? Im sure she just loves me now, and my frustration for these guys overweighed the fact that this particular woman was quite attractive (and didnt know how to dance, btw). I guess it just hit me the wrong way...these guys werent even strangers to this woman....ahhhhh!!!!!!! I guess she was too good for anyone to dance with....pisses me off!!! dance or leave!!!!!!!!!! I can understand a no thanks I just danced for 10 minutes.but not to everyone including the people she knows...to just to sit there next to the dance floor so men could come up to her and ask her the whole night and not even accept one dance invitation....did I mention that pisses me off?? How do I really feel about it??? Good question!! :evil: :evil: Ahem...Salsa rules....women who say no to everyone (not just a particualr person they dont like to dance with) stinks to high heaven..