Is it possible for the woman to lead in dancing salsa, instead of the man? I had a dance partner and I find her too hard headed. I end up being the one led on the dance floor. I do not have the same problem with my other partners. I tried to bring her to our dance lessons but she always find reasons to get herself excused. During dance parties, I end up avoiding dancing with her. But then sometimes, I couldn't resist especially whenever a woman (like her) approached and ask me for a dance. So, what should I do?