Dancers Anonymous > Your Ideal...cont'd

Discussion in 'Dancers Anonymous' started by Shooshoo, Mar 20, 2006.

  1. Shooshoo

    Shooshoo New Member

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  2. Sabor

    Sabor New Member

    from this board?.. no idea.. i had to import
     
  3. Sabor

    Sabor New Member

    the idea of ideal is non-existent..

    u just make do with the best of the worst .. if u have to..
     
  4. cl5814

    cl5814 New Member

    "You know its funny with guys in particular since I happen to be one.. I cant tell you how many times Ive seen it where the woman just talks, pleads, and nearly begs the man to listen to her and try and make him understand what it is that she needs out of the relationship and the guy either just doesnt get it or doesnt want to get it...but then he hears the same thing but coming from another man rather than a woman, Viola` , it sinks in"

    ok, so i had to have a man to talk to the "creature/man" to tell him that i wasn't interested in him, didn't want anything to do with him; cause he was planning a future together and i was planning a future with us separated by continents. He just didn't get it.......for 3 years. Yes, it makes sense now.
     
  5. bordertangoman

    bordertangoman Well-Known Member

    how about: " she was the sort of woman who, after ten minutes listening to her, would create a modulation the pychic wavefront to induce cognitive dissonance causing a cerebal shutdown. I just found myself unable to concentrate on anything she said." :cool:
     
  6. AzureDreamer

    AzureDreamer New Member

    You could just have slept with one of his friends... sure, its a last resort, but it does tend to really get closure on issues like that. :)

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  7. mamboqueen

    mamboqueen Well-Known Member


    this is so true. When I want to tell my husband something, I convey it to my neighbor first. It carries more weight for some reason. He can't understand why the home-made cheap-fake-sunflower wreath he made should hang prominently on the front of the house. Sadly, I don't want anyone to think *I* made it (because they certainly won't think a man made it *LOL*). Spoke to good ol' Judy across the street, and it was down in 2 days.

    :shock:
     
  8. Shooshoo

    Shooshoo New Member

    Another trick I do (with my father) is talk in a low voice (to someone else), then, THAT WILL attract their attention.
     
  9. fascination

    fascination Site Moderator Staff Member

    gotta agree...get another guy to say it, wrap it in a sports analogy, or say it right before you feed him or have sex....lol
     
  10. bordertangoman

    bordertangoman Well-Known Member

    You expect us men to listen at such a time!!!!!!
     
  11. fascination

    fascination Site Moderator Staff Member

    well there's definately no hope afterwards
     
  12. bordertangoman

    bordertangoman Well-Known Member

    true.. we're asleep then
     
  13. AzureDreamer

    AzureDreamer New Member

    or in the kitchen making some food because your girlfriend has read in some book that guys who are really hungry are much ...
     
  14. Sabor

    Sabor New Member

    if women talk less .. men will listen more..

    alas.. it was not meant to be.. tsk tsk
     
  15. bordertangoman

    bordertangoman Well-Known Member


    "Constantly talking isn't necessarily communicating. "
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  16. Shooshoo

    Shooshoo New Member

    True, but you also need to talk cause most misunderstandings and conflict between people is because of miscommunication. So one has to talk (a little) and listen (alot) both ways.
     
  17. pygmalion

    pygmalion Well-Known Member

    Wowza. This thread's been alive and kicking since my birthday and I never posted a thing. Hmm ...

    Must ponder all the ideas raised. I'm not sure I know much of anything about the topic. :?
     

  18. Happy Belated Birthday Jenn! Sorry, I missed it.

    The topic is about your ideal.... (I guess it helps to know what you want, in order to get what you need and I'm sure you must know what you want by now!)
     
  19. pygmalion

    pygmalion Well-Known Member

    Thanks Galacticdancer. Yeah. It's about ones ideal. I'm just not sure what that is, anymore. I used to know. But life has beaten me down and challenged my assumptions so much ... I'm not sure what ideal even means anymore. :?



    Totally off-the-wall question. What kind of design engineer are you? D'ya know anything about miles per gallon? Just curious. :)
     
  20. fascination

    fascination Site Moderator Staff Member

    how can you know what ideal is when ideal usually is someone who meets all your hopes and expectations and thats not even possible but even if it was who knows what all their hopes and expectations are...meh...ideal is over-rated and dangerous unless, its been watered down into a very mature version of ideal...so sue me...just being candid
     

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