Recent content by nagamiki

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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    Yes, and currently I could only have fun with followers that less skilled than me, I think it may because I have no pressure and can dance freely with them. On the other hand, if dancing with advanced followers I will be very nervous and I think whatever I do will not bring any surprise to...
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    Group Lessons vs. Peer-to-Peer (P2P) Learning

    Hi, I think your experience of learning lead is natural and efficient. The only problem I am worrying is how to make an advanced follower accept our invitation and follow us honestly. In my city most advanced followers(and also intermediate followers maybe) are willing to dance with more...
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    I am very curious what if a less skilled leader invite her? Would she accept and have fun? Or she would rather wait for a skilled hunter?
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    Hi, I do not mean all young followers are picky, maybe only one or two there but I met them. And I think it is natural for a follower to choose the top skilled leader if she has that many choices, if I was her I will make the same choice, and I am not complaining.
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    Hi, I recently feel that dancing with old lady is more likely to have fun. Because most old ladies I met are polite and kind, and I do not have pressure dancing with them, also they are easily to forgive my fault. On the other hand, some young ladies seems picky and snobbish, not very kind to...
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    Hi Reuven, Yes I have same feeling. I remember in one practica last year a very beautiful and top skilled young woman in my club came to me and asked me to dance with her, and she knew that I was a beginner. To me this was a very generous and give me huge confidence to continue to learn. I think...
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    Hi 955, Thank you very much for encouraging. Now I know what's my problem. I should not dream the milonga to be a wonderful memory at the beginning, instead I should treat it as a struggling journey, maybe endless, and try to find out anything fun in this process. I think I will not give up:)
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    Hi Lily, Yes I think you are right. I am thinking too much but doing too little, which should not be the right direction of tango or life. Now I am thinking to make some change, maybe start by private lesson, at least I could do something there...
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    Hi Vincenze, Thank you very much for your suggestion. It's really good to know that some women don't mind to dance with beginner. Maybe I should try to invite as much as possible so finally I will meet one of these women:) I just asked one of my teachers for private lesson and she gave me an...
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    What are the 5 top reasons that make a man ask a woman to dance? Beauty comes first?

    I have been learning tango for nearly two years. Maybe I am a slow learner, I know I still have many issues of leading. When I go to a milonga, I see most leaders have better skills than me. That make me afraid of invite a woman(even my friends, I already have some friends known in class and...