At first he was afraid that I would fall in love with someone else, but he's gotten over that fear now. Now, he thinks that ballroom is basically pornography (WHAAAAT???) He feels like me dancing with other men is equivalent to him handing me off to some other guy, like a rental product. I told him it's just dancing and it's a lot of fun. I tried telling him that on a competitive floor there IS a connection between dancers and the Latin/Rhythm dances are of course sexy, but I'm not flirting with another guy and I don't have feelings for anyone but him. His counter statement: porn isn't real. They don't REALLY have feelings for each other, but they're acting to make it look that way; and he definitely wouldn't be okay with me doing porn.