First post. My wife and I took Tango lessons for a year and she would have a big smile when we dance Tango. Then she went Tango crazy and does practicas all the time and workshops and classes and stuff. I work and cannot do 15 or more hours a week of Tango but I do a class and practice with her and do a Milonga every week. Now she dances with me but frowns the whole time we dance and constantly looks around like she is bored. But the really good ladies seem happy when they dance with me go figure and they do not look around like bored. She dances all the time with these old guys with years and years of experience and has this look of happy bliss with them. I feel very discouraged. What do you Tango experts suggest. Should I ask her to slow things down to my rate about 7 hours a week. Should I take privates without her to try to catch up. Should I take privates with her? Should we do less Tango it is maybe rushing? AT milongas I always make sure she has a dance we have lots of ladies more than men. I don't say this to be mean but should I dance even if it makes her sit sometimes we have lots more ladies than men so I could dance all night but she would get maybe half dances. So not to be mean but maybe she would enjoy our dances then. Should I just suffer I read posts here that say men eventually are better Tangos than women.