On most occasions after I have danced with a follower, I give her a hug to thank her for dancing with me and then leave her after walking her off the floor. Well the other night I did just that and this particular follower (will not mention if she was attractive or not) pinched me in the rear end!! I was shocked! :shock: I was half angry and half flattered. But mostly in shock. I didn't know how to respond (did she really do what I think she just did?? ), so I just ignored it and walked off. That was actually the first time that happened to me in the few years that I have been dancing salsa. Now, what would you as a guy would have done, there is something in me that said that wasnt proper and something in me that said "thank you may I have another".
This IMO is one of those occaisions where the rules aren't equal between the sexes and it's fine by me. A guy shouldn't do this, but if a girl wanted to give you a pinch on the @ss, be thankful. I would and think of it just as some harmless flirting. And her beauty shouldn't be a factor whether it's acceptable. It's not that you're going to sleep with her. I'd give her a wink and a smile.