Joe, did you notice my post #16? I devoted quite a bit of effort to it specifically in an attempt to divert the thread from -- IMO irrelevant -- glib exchanges over various kinds of sexual gratification.
Please keep in mind that you come here asking for opinions. And asking for only certain opinions is even more likely to get all the wrong ones. Label a thread around here "women only" and talk about bras and support while dancing and all of the men can't help themselves but peek and often interrupt a subject that they have absolutely no idea about
No one is going to judge you on your morality. But they will give you an opinion that you asked for so be prepared. And this IS more or less and Ballroom and Latin forum... of which kizomba is not really a part of... so the mores and expectations may not quite line up.
Now beyond all that stuff I will say I am a woman, not a hottie, probably older than you would ever care to glance twice at, and quite married. So my opinion is clearly not the one you are after. But as a dance professional for over 26 years, and a former studio owner, ANYTIME a man comes in and I hear that he is dancing with the ladies getting a boner I will escort him right out the door. Right... out... the.. door. Ballroom studios are no place for that stuff. There are bars and Tinder for that.
So my professional opinion is simply take care of yourself before you even leave the house so that ladies, and then ultimately me, don't have to deal with it.
here's the thing about practicing celibacy--from someone who works on a daily basis with many who practice it--what you don't do is put yourself deliberately into situations that seriously challenge it before you have progressed in it....so I would suggest that you concentrate on mastering that self-discipline, if that is what you truly want, before you simultaneously decide to challenge it