Very strange fixation on your part if I may say so
Matrix may be new to most people on Dance-Forums.com, but he has a history on the Internet, particularly on Salsa-related message boards. More importantly, Matrix is using this thread to talk about a specific woman, and some of us know exactly who that is. This is now the second thread on two different forums that Matrix has started, regarding that woman. The first thread on the other forum was a more blatant and direct insult to that person, and this thread is merely a thinly veiled one.
For reasons that only a therapist could understand, it is obvious that Matrix has been on a mission to gather support for his belief that such a person is "weird".....only to have it backfire on him because both threads have shown overwhelming support for what real dancers understand -- dancing is most often about individual expression and we should respect other dancers' ways of doing that, even if it doesn't match our own culture, teachings, emotions, etc.
Matrix needs help. For every 3 or 4 good threads he might start, he just can't stop himself from countering those with one that is so outrageously insulting or offensive that it overshadows the rest. He gets away with his wacky thoughts on one or two forums, so I usually ignore him there. I just hate to see him try to bring that mess to DF.
Sorry, but that's my unvarnished opinion.
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