OK, correction there. Many young, "nice" men think it's about bad boys. Actually, it's about boys that are assertive and confident enough to actually make a play for them. Sometimes it goes hand in hand with being a "bad boy", but that's not the key characteristic. And it's not that the women come around to nice boys, it's that as they get older, the nice boys finally grow a pair and ask the ladies out. Let's not confuse correlation with causation.