Thanks to you who recommended In Cahoots in San Diego for dancing this past week. My Husband (who doesn't dance) and I were in SD on vacation and went there Wednesday night. It was great! To get dancing I had to be brave and ask (total strangers of course) first a few times, but then I started getting asked as well, after the dancers saw me on the floor. I wish there was a place like this where I live!! People who live in big cities are SO lucky that they have many opportunities for quality dancing and quality intermediate/advanced dancers. Thanks again DANCE FORUMs!