It's hard to tell the intention of the guy when he asks for a girl's number at a salsa club. May be he's looking for just a dancing partner. May be he has seen the girl and danced with her a few times; she impressed him, and he wanted to find out what she's like outside the dance scene. May be he's trying to hook the girl up with his buddy who's a great guy. May be he's looking for a girl to sleep with. So there is all these may-bes. You'll only find out once you've given out the number. I generally don't ask for the numbers of the girls I dance with. Since I go to the same clubs regularly I see them there. I've exchanged my phone number with the girls I dance regularly with only when there's some salsa events that we wanted to check out and needed more info. The only other occasion I exchanged number with a girl was to practice some moves together.
When i ask for a number, I'm probably looking for a place to stay over night. :shock:
No kidding, i really do. But i always feel so dumb, to ask if i could stay at his/her house some time, and than asking for the number. (i can't go home after dances, because there are no train connections to get home that late - that's why)