I have danced with a number of absolutely great partners, yet a lot of times I've felt that I'm dancing alone. No eye contact, no flavor to their dancing, and so on... Yet, they look incredible while dancing but it doesn't feel good to me as their partner. I have for sometime began to be very selective as to whom I ask to dance. I don't mean in skill level but in passion level. My style is very passionate, so when I dance I look for someone who displays passion and will feed off of me and dance passionate as well. Don't get me wrong if they ask me for another dance I will dance, however, when it comes to me asking them, I'll do everything in my control to avoid another dance with a particular person... Does everyone out-there feel the same or is it just me being a snot?