don't take this the wrong way afri, but you seem a bit bitter on this subject...? a bad experience with guys (or girls, in a man's case) can make it difficult to view the opposite sex in a positive way... but don't let any bad experiences you may have had shape your view of ALL men. I saw a couple of guys at the club the other night dancing disrespectfully with women, talking like they're Rico Suave with them, trying to be players, etc., etc... and I had to just roll my eyes and wonder what they're thinking. But there ARE good guys out there, and just as many guys have had bad experiences with women as the other way around. So we all have to be positive in our approach to the opposite sex... yeah?
and i should have clarified that it's not all men that I tend to avoid (hahaa!) just the -competent- salsero types, too many issues there
btw sweavo I soooo agree about the lady social climbers, too many females runnin scams, can you say "free lessons" :lol: maybe I wasn't bright enough to use that track as a beginner, but I'm sure I would have progressed much faster bwahaa!
Btw, men do it too