Styling, Footwork, Etc...
Highlighting some of the other posts:
* I absolutely agree with Brujo when he said,
"Styling should come naturally to you as part of your muscle memory, not as an active thought of, 'Hey! I am going to raise my arm now!'."
I know a girl who is on a Salsa team here in town. One night I watched her dance and her partner broke off their connection to start shinning. The guy looked great he felt genuinely into the music. The girl on the other hand merely did some sort of choreographed footwork routine from the team she was on. While the guy was dancing from his heart and focusing on feeling the music, she was more focused on
remembering what she had learned from the team and didn't look the least bit genuine at all. This also goes along with what SDsalsaguy and Borikensalsero said when styling must be genuine and must come from the music (what the song calls for), as well as styling from the heart.
* I also have to give props to SDsalsaguy once again for saying
".. obviously it can take time to develop one's own style and flair... but doing the exact same hand in the air, in exactly the same way, in exactly the same place.... screams sterility rather than organic dancing!"
I can just feel his anger as he is pounding away at the keyboard!!! "Sterility" is an excellent way to describe it. People who learn from the same Salsa instructor imitate his/her own style/bodily philosophy of dancing and reproduce it on the dance floor. It may look good or a bit flashy, but it is a million times more gratifying to have someone genuinely produce a style of their own.
* Props to Brujo for saying,
Style as much as you want, as long as it doesn't interfere with the connection and lead-follow dynamics...
A very good male dancer knew me very well and asked me to lead him. I did. It was the worst dance of my life. His styling phenomenally interfered with our connection. Prospects of at the very least doing a cross-body lead were out the window. He was good at leading. His muscle memory and his trainning geared him to only be a good lead and not to follow. Leaders who are male are accustomed to supplying the energy, strength, and styling of the dance to create their own atmosphere to the follower during the dance. With role reversal, his muscle memory didn't allow him to relinquish control and let me direct the dance.
* Borikensalsero said,
Keep in mind that it isn't a stage performance in the dance-floor of social dancing.
For instructors, it may be a performance for an audience because they want to rake in potential students. For people with big egos, it's their time to shine (pardon the pun). For the audience, especially worse for beginners being spectators, they see it as an impressive looking show. This becomes a very bad foundation because beginners will then go to classes, learn some footwork from an instructor with his/her own bodily philosophy, and imitate it on the dance floor thinking they look good. Once again, not genuine, not from the heart, probably not with what the music calls for, and hence not looking good.
And my own little schpeil to add to this tangent of footwork-
Seeing guys do footwork from the heart and with the music is something to marvel. It sort of renews all of the reasons why we dance Salsa to begin with. However, it is not kosher seeing a guy breakout into fancy/schmansy footwork that is above and beyond their partner's abilities. It looks incredibly bad between the two to have such disparities(regardless how good he is) and it is
deeply inconsiderate to said follower because the guy is upstaging her.
Secondly, it's fun to execute footwork in reaction/interaction to your partner. Then, you are interacting on a stylistic level- matching each other, battling each other, etc. Plus, both people are still connected on a non-physical level. Executing footwork for the
sole purpose of looking good to a crowd of on-lookers deviates from the leader's commitment to his partner because then the invisible connection is lost and it doesn't feel good to the follower.
[Apologies to the long post. I have dial up. I don't post often; when I do, I post LONG.]