scorpionguy said:
Re: Splits - Try some yoga...
Yoga could help, but I doubt it can be suffice. I've been doing yoga for last 3 years, and I can honestly say it wouldn't get me there. So far I've only found 1 yoga posture with a split - Hanuman, which is the same martial arts split, i.e. variation of the front split. You can do front splits on both sides very easily, yet be very far from full dead (or center) split. Different reflex

. BTW yoga instructions for hanuman are the same relaxed stratching. If you're over 18 it's quite difficult to get in the split that way.
I have some flexibility from it but I've never really worked on doing a full split.
Actually if you don't feel you want and need to do splits, you don't have to. The same books from which I picked up all my stretching excercises discussess that point, and also notes that excessive flexibility can hamper ones sports performance. E.g weight lifters don't need flexible backs and hamstrings, because stretch reflex fires later and allows them sink deeper, i.e. much more effort to get up with the weight.
Same reason for martial artists for not doing negative splits, i.e. spliting for more than 180 degrees, that's doable too, but you'll have problems recovering from your leg kicks.
I remember when I did Karate our teacher used to say to sit in a wide split as far as you could...and watch TV this way (I don't recommened this, but it is something you could try).
Depending how wide do you split you can spend a day in there and gain nothing. Or you can gain, but this is again the same "relaxed stretching". Besides being the most ineffective, in the end flexibility gained that way can be dangerous too. Your muscle will have no strength in stretched positine, because you never trained it for that. Result can be real bad, such as torn ligament, wich heals for months or longer.
Some people just have the right genetics for it, others don't.
I don't really believe in that. I'm not trying to start an argument here, honestly

. I just heard it too many times. That and "too late" thing are most widely used arguments (or excuses). And quite discouraging for the most ppl.
The only genetic related thing I was able to disconver reading various info for last 2 years was that female hip joints are 25% more mobile tham males, because they have to give birth. That's all. Now if the males can do full splits, it will be at least 25% easier for females to do the same

As for the rest, if your joints are healthy and you want to do it, go ahead. Well, ok check with your doc if you have some medical condition, obviously I am no expert in the area.
Personally, I don't see what the big deal is about it...
Nothing, just because most of the folks can't do it you look more developed.
Again, for most of the sports, and dancing splits are not necessary at all. But if you want to do it, why not. After all you're improving something in your body and mind, not the other way.
Jeez, I guess I wrote too much.
Happy stretching everyone.