Hey SG... It seems that I agree with a lot of what Brujo says and disagree with a lot of it as well....
I know exactly where you are coming from with the Cha Cha... Something that is a fact about a hardcore/100% salsero, is that he will reluctantly dance any other dance, other than salsa. He will reluctantly do anything that doesn’t include salsa. Hence, the label of Salsa as a lifestyle, not just a person who likes salsa and dances it along with other dances. It is salsa first, second, third, forth, fifth, until you die, the rest of the stuff are after thoughts. Not because you are snob and think salsa I the greatest, which it can very well be, but because it is the one thing that you absolutely love and it loves you right back. So, why would I deny you of saying, hey salsa is my soul-mate and it doesn’t matter how many other women I meet, salsa is going to be it... always before the rest. I can’t deny you that, nor the idea that it might very well be the road you choose to travel.
The problem you have has nothing to do with being a salsero, nor not knowing the dance. It has to do with your musical taste maturity and what influences need to be in the music for you to like or care to dance to it. It seems that the problems you are going through with salsa, merengue, bachata are the same I went through.
I used to detest cha cha cha, but I always knew that it was because I just didn't have the taste of it, salsa was just so much livelier, it steered so much emotion. All my instructors knew that I didn’t like it. It seemed that every person I danced with salsa wanted to cha cha with me. They would always say that if I was that smooth dancing salsa I had to be a heck of a cha cha dancer. Well, guess what, not until about 6 months ago my body finally reacted to cha cha, now I love the stuff, I admire it for it coming from danzon, and guaguanco to what it is now, a dance to be sensual to and a relative of salsa to which I must be good to. Appreciation for it finally settled in me, now it isn’t to say that it will for you. But I understand whole-heartedly where you are coming from and all I ask is not to force anything, not the music nor the dance let it come to you. When you are ready it will come to you.
Now to the Orishas… You can not and will not bring down a santo even if you dance exactly as per the dance calls it for. You can not evoke something that you aren’t ready to evoke mentally. Not physically but mentally. And it isn’t you being ready, but the santo knowing that you are ready, it isn’t something you choose, it is something that happens. You can try to bring Ochun down the rest of your life with dances and rituals and you might very well never do. Chances are that if you are doing these things you are becoming ready little by little… But Why not? Because wanting and being ready to for something aren’t the same, and again you don’t choose being ready, it chooses you. It is erroneous belief that a lot of people have of yeah, I am going to do this and it will invoke Obatala. Not so… Obatala knows that you are ready, and it will then come down, and being ready doesn’t start in this lifetime, it started a long time ago… For those people who it happens to just by sitting down and playing the sacred drums of Regla de Ocho, those people have been ready all their lives, all that was needed was the setting, and the drums were the medium to the Orishas… Blah blah blah
And why a choreography will never bring an Orisha down, unless the individuals involved know and are ready for it, and why those people would watch out not to bring a saint down in a middle of a performance. You and I have nothing to worry about… more blah blah blah…
The rest of the stuff Brujo is right on point with.
Danzon is a Cuban dance derived from the French Danza. You could say it’s the classics of latin music…