Limits

What do you think is the most limiting factor to your advancement as a dancer:

is it time (I think even if I don't practice certain things get better with time), maybe the time needed for your body to get strong enough for a new move

amount of practicing - time invested (hours and hours)

your teacher's skills

number of lessons you take (or I should call this "the price of lessons")

Concentration or lack of it during practice

physical limitations

Anything else?

Right now I feel its the medal classes I take that are holding me back.

I honestly believe I could be learning so much more.
Im constantly frustrated by some of the others in my class taking 3 times as long as me to learn the steps.
I picked up the entire Jive routine in a single lesson, (as only 4 people attended that class we had time to be shown all the steps)
I have been practicing it at home for the past few days and Im seeing myself getting much better at it.
Now I know that uppn returning to class next week, the people who didnt bother showing up last week will have to be taught the steps, and they are the ones who take forever to learn them so I will be forced to wait at least 3 weeks before they finish the whole routine.

I will use this time productively and ask for some minor technique work I can practice while everyone learns the routine... but its still not the same.

It annoys me that I work so hard to learn it well, I take private lessons to improve and they cant even be bothered showing up to their PRE PAID classes and dont give 2 hoots if they are holding everyone else back.

It's more like time and money to devote to this. I like to keep my job and do all the other activities I enjoy doing on top of this. Tough to do.

On the other hand, my current level of activity, I do enjoy as it is.

Ditto!! Time and money.

My ability?

Seriously, I wish I could devote the time and energy to it that I'd like to. But what I'm doing right now is already a lot. If only I could live like three different lives....

Definitely Time! So much to do and learn across the scope of life, never seem to have enough time.

Time most of all... followed by money.

My most limiting factor...fear...

...fear of looking foolish
...fear of being labeled a "show-off"
...fear of failing...

Fear is a big one for many people. Fear of being rejected when you ask a person for a dance, can be added to that list for leaders. You just have to be shameless!! :wink:


You only fail when you feel you don't do your best, when you don't put 100% of yourself into it. You never fail because of what others think.

chachagirlie said:

My most limiting factor...fear...

...fear of looking foolish
...fear of being labeled a "show-off"
...fear of failing...

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chachagirlie--

You're dancing. When a woman dances she's at her best, her most joyful, her sexiest, her most alive. How can you possibly fail?

:kissme:

Yep, time and money! Would love to do a latin private, a modern private and a street latin private a week and a gal can't have too many dance shoes...

Kitty said:

What do you think is the most limiting factor to your advancement as a dancer:

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The reality of partnering. I can easily commit to 2 hours of practice per day, 6 days a week. But my partner(s) can't. Dance is about dancing *with* someone, so there is only so much you can develop by practicing alone. I find it is limiting when your partner can't put in the same amount of time as I do. This isn't a source of tension, BTW. It's just a reality that I accept. But it does keep us developing slower than we could.

hmm interesting subject..

there are of course a number of limitations.. yet, if i had to choose the most significant, the most dangerous, in my opinion.. it would definitely be the mind/perception.. in arts in general and hence dance.. limitted/closed mind is lethal :?

Adwiz said:

Kitty said:

What do you think is the most limiting factor to your advancement as a dancer:

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The reality of partnering. I can easily commit to 2 hours of practice per day, 6 days a week. But my partner(s) can't. Dance is about dancing *with* someone, so there is only so much you can develop by practicing alone. I find it is limiting when your partner can't put in the same amount of time as I do. This isn't a source of tension, BTW. It's just a reality that I accept. But it does keep us developing slower than we could.

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That is a good one. How didn't I think of that?! I think this is my most limiting factor too!!!

Followed by time.

Too many dances, too little time, not enough money. Oddly enough a partner may actually restrict the time I have to dance the other things I like to do as I won't imagine there's a partner out there that wants to do everything I want to do (but who knows).