So, what shall we talk about?

Pacion

Pacion

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I have heard/read several times that on a 'first date' one should not talk about one's exes, in a good way or bad way, one shouldn't. Why do people still do it? Don't they hear/read the same things as I do? :oops: :lol:
 
Chris Stratton said:
Hmm, Eggleton vs. Irvine CBM?
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Huh?!? :lol: Can you run that one by me one more time please, this time in english for a non ballroom dancing, non american :wink: :lol:
 
Err, how about the 2004 World Series of Poker?

(lol, kidding, kidding...)

(ouch, quit it, Pacion...)
:wink:
 
I kind of like it if a guy mentions his ex in sometime in the first few dates. Guys can be pretty transparent, and I use those kinds of conversations to figure out whether to dump the guy or proceed.
 
'First date' though Pygmalion? A mention is one thing, such as 5 mins every hour versus 55 mins out of every hour :?
 
pygmalion said:
I kind of like it if a guy mentions his ex in sometime in the first few dates. Guys can be pretty transparent, and I use those kinds of conversations to figure out whether to dump the guy or proceed.
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Pygmalion, I agree. I'd like to know if there's Baby Momma Drama, if this is a rebound situation or if there is more than one (player mentality). I'm sure guys use this tactic as well. :wink: But depending on how much or how less, I can usually tell what's up and if I should run like the wind. :lol: Whew, glad I'm not looking. Don't have the patience these days. :?
 
Tell me about it!! As I told my sister the other day, I'm done with the drama. No ugly men. No broke men. And no men with attitudes. That's my mantra. :wink: :lol:
 
peachexploration said:
Pygmalion, I agree. I'd like to know if there's Baby Momma Drama, if this is a rebound situation or if there is more than one (player mentality). I'm sure guys use this tactic as well. :wink: But depending on how much or how less, I can usually tell what's up and if I should run like the wind. :lol: Whew, glad I'm not looking. Don't have the patience these days. :?
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I agree too, in a sense, with what both of you said. But you know the saying "too much information"? Add to that, the realisation that when you thought you were meeting as 'friends', it seems he has other thoughts :doh:
 
Okay. So don't dump him. Just don't call him, either. Let him call you. Given him time to clarify his thoughts a bit. If he's constantly talking about his ex, he hasn't completely let go yet, but he's probably considering it. Now is your best opportunity to take a strong stance.

... Not that one should play heartless romantic games, of course ... :roll: :lol:
 
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