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Well, that's more or less the position that prompted this thread. I was shown it by a California-based teacher called Andrew Sutton last weekend for the first time (he actually used 2 fingers - the middle one and the fourth). Last night I was alternating between 3 fingers and 4 fingers. Still haven't decided which I prefer. All the other leaders I observed last night used 4.Doug said:I always use a "pistol grip" with index finger extended straight out, thumb up and not touching anything, and middle, ring and little fingers forming the hook. Thus although I nominally contact with only three fingers, the index finger can be placed along side her hand to provide additional lateral guiding if required.
You mean gripping much too hard? I am sure I have. I think it usually shows fear and inexperience, and should be expected by anyone who dances with inexperienced dancers.Swingolder said:As a follower, I am asking, have you leaders ever been guilty of that death grip? And how does a follower let you know that it hurts? Pull my hand away? wiggle my fingers (if possible)? say "that hurts"?
I use the pistol grip too. Once I was shown it, I've never gone back. Don't ask me why, just feels natural.huey said:Well, that's more or less the position that prompted this thread. I was shown it by a California-based teacher called Andrew Sutton last weekend for the first time (he actually used 2 fingers - the middle one and the fourth). Last night I was alternating between 3 fingers and 4 fingers. Still haven't decided which I prefer. All the other leaders I observed last night used 4.Doug said:I always use a "pistol grip" with index finger extended straight out, thumb up and not touching anything, and middle, ring and little fingers forming the hook. Thus although I nominally contact with only three fingers, the index finger can be placed along side her hand to provide additional lateral guiding if required.
One of the teachers I've taken classes for pointed out that quite often, the follower has a part in this too. If the leader feels that her hand is very loose and could slide off more or less any second, he might unconciously try to hold her hand in place. In addition to telling him about it, it could be a tip to give him a little bit more solid feeling in the hand.Swingolder said:have you leaders ever been guilty of that death grip? And how does a follower let you know that it hurts? Pull my hand away? wiggle my fingers (if possible)? say "that hurts"?
Flat Shoes said:I use the pistol grip too. Once I was shown it, I've never gone back. Don't ask me why, just feels natural.huey said:Well, that's more or less the position that prompted this thread. I was shown it by a California-based teacher called Andrew Sutton last weekend for the first time (he actually used 2 fingers - the middle one and the fourth). Last night I was alternating between 3 fingers and 4 fingers. Still haven't decided which I prefer. All the other leaders I observed last night used 4.Doug said:I always use a "pistol grip" with index finger extended straight out, thumb up and not touching anything, and middle, ring and little fingers forming the hook. Thus although I nominally contact with only three fingers, the index finger can be placed along side her hand to provide additional lateral guiding if required.
How many of the fingers I use, I've never thought about. The grip is in the middle finger and the forth. What I do with the little finger, I think is irrelevant.
When it gomes to hard grips, I have on a couple of occasions been told to easy up on the thumb. But this is mainly when 'holding hands' in class. I don't squeeze while dancing (I think).