Ask questions, meet dancers, and be part of the conversation.
squirrel said:If they are paired up by chance, do we draw another time or we let them stick together?
I think others allow the men and women to enter as a pair. The only difficult with that is, the couple may know each other well/practiced together so there may not be much true leading and following going on.
At most venues where J&Js are done, there are usually levels, however, if it's just a club or social function, just go for it with everyone at the same level. Usually its either a Salsa or WCS.Swingolder said:Is there anyway this can be based on levels or do really good dancers dance with beginners? Someone is talking about doing this at one of the places I dance, and I don't think I would be comfortable dancing with someone on a much higher level and I know my dh would definitely not be interested. He even gets more intimidated that I do.
Yeah, that helps, this would be a social thing. The part about having sex on the floor (even written facetiously) seems a little out of my league! I am totally inhibited if I think someone is watching. I think I will just watch the first time.Vince A said:At most venues where J&Js are done, there are usually levels, however, if it's just a club or social function, just go for it with everyone at the same level. Usually its either a Salsa or WCS.Swingolder said:Is there anyway this can be based on levels or do really good dancers dance with beginners? Someone is talking about doing this at one of the places I dance, and I don't think I would be comfortable dancing with someone on a much higher level and I know my dh would definitely not be interested. He even gets more intimidated that I do.
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Three songs - usually a good tempo song if its WCS, then a somewhat faster one, then a VERY SLOW one, so everyone can have sex on the floor . . . that's usually when the comedians come out! It's not allowed to get too carried away as we have kids there at times.
Hope that helps!
I am totally inhibited if I think someone is watching. I think I will just watch the first time.
Yea, I agree . . . once you get past your first one, you'll n o longer get nervous.leftfeetnyc said:My guess though, is that if you love dancing (which you seem to as I see you posting in on DF all the time), you will love the J&Js. Besides just being fun, it's a great way to share the dance with one another. It would be great to see an award for most passionate (about the dance) sometime!